How to Get More Dates With Shortcuts of Masters and MillionairesWhether it's a date with that very nice-looking person over there, Some -- and only some -- of our fears and desires launch us into action. More often than we'd expect, people show their best in the face of disaster affecting other people.
We're not quite as selfish as TV news reporters would have us believe. Fear and desire are big, big forces we tap into in emergencies. Let's use them for YOU to benefit
from quickly. You already know from experiences in your own life that when we have a strong enough 'why' we find more ways to get it done.
That's why, like every great thinker, we can work backwards and live it forwards. The fancy term is "reverse engineering;" where you simply take a finished result and back up, step by step until arriving back at the startng line. It is so, so, so much faster than using trial and error. It cost nothing to open your mind. Only when we have a strong enough "why" for doing something do we take action. Most people have every resource necessary to achieve their desires ...yet they >do not act upon those desires until they have a strong enough reason for doing it, getting it, and enjoying it. Most often, they act when NOT acting will cause greater pain... in other words, because we have to. That's why we don't call the dentist until it becomes unbearable. Only when there's a financial or other personally-distressing deadline do we buckle down and get busy. Tell the truth: how many times have you had an urgent deadline suddenly thrust in your face, an unexpected expense or need that requires instant and equally urgent attention? Most of us wait until the pain is unbearable before we call the dentist, right? Too many times you've declared that you "just don't have the time to________." Pure and simple, that's a lie. Probably the most dangerous lie that you tell yourself and others. Ask
yourself what you want, and then why you want it... If you are willing to describe precisely what you want, and when; what you'll get out of it; what's stopping you (obstacles), and then you break it into several smaller pieces, on paper, you'll find that you've taken the beginning steps that have been consciously or not-so-consciously taken by 5,200 extremely successful human beings that I studied. ALL WINNERS PUT IT IN WRITING.What are the 5 things you most want? Close your mouth, write them down. Write them down again 2x pr day for 10 days, & tell me your life hasn't seriously changed. You have no right to opine whether or not this is a HUGE magical, high-velocity shortcut until you do it ten, twenty, thirty times or more!! Almost everyone understands this, and almost everyone is too stupid to act upon it . That's why they're not happy with the results in their own lives. And it's surely been true of you many times.... up until today.We're unhappy because it's not handed to us; we have to take a few actions, and, simple as they are, we make excuses and end up the same: unhappy with the results. True, or not? Today is when you take what you already know, organize it on paper, and then act upon it. Within a day or so, you'll start seeing changes. Within a week, everyone around you will notice. Just think about what you want, and put it on paper with some details. Losers know exactly what to do. Winners are those who shut up and do it. They care enough about their own lives to actually take the first step. Why not take a look at what's possible in YOUR life? |